Qupidr was born in Quebec, built with real Quebec women, for intimate encounters where nobody has to apologise for what they want.
Adult dating apps almost all start from the same premise: an endless feed, fake profiles, and the idea that desire is measured by volume.
We wanted the opposite. A place where you write what you're looking for before showing a photo. Where saying no requires no justification. Where discretion is a setting, not a paid option.
Qupidr was designed with women first, because they are the ones who leave these platforms first, and for the same reasons. What protects them protects everyone.
The non-negotiable principle
A “no”, a silence or a hesitation means the exchange must stop immediately.
Consent must be explicit, enthusiastic and ongoing. It can be withdrawn at any moment, without explanation, and must be respected on the spot. This applies to messages, photos, audio, video and meetings.
Control over what you show is neither negotiable nor for sale.
Safety is not a terms page, it's continuous work.
Your email address is used to verify your account. Nothing else.
Some things are not a matter of graduated moderation. They lead to an immediate and permanent ban.
Report any member who makes you uncomfortable or crosses a line. A moderation team handles reports, and you never have to justify a block.
Restricted to 18 and over. Respect and consent are mandatory.